Twelve Stages of Love: New Options at Each Stage... 1.  Starry eyes, heart connection, shivers. 2.  Both people are aware of the same response. 3.  Checking out compatibility. 4.  This may be it: Who goes first with declaration? 5.  Commitment? 6.  Yes to long-term commitment and coasting. 7.   First serious problems. 8.  Lots of serious problems. 9.  Boredom: Flat relationships . 10.  Splitting up. 11.  Getting over it. 12.   Regrets. We invite you to send...