You Can Help Them Change (Step One)... You can’t change anyone else, but you can help them change if they want to. How? By using certain strategies from Gestalt Psychology, Linguistics, and System’s Theory. What strategies?  There are four major steps to this sort of opinion change.  The first step will be explained here.  The other three will follow.  The steps are easy, once you know them.  Most people do not. EXAMPLE: NOT WANTING CHILDREN This...