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Quick Skills For Relationships – Skill One
Quick Skills For Relationships – Skill One... Key Principle One Our eye movements reflect our thinking processes.  Knowing someone’s thinking processes helps you in understanding them. New Behavior One: The Most Important First Step to Understanding Another. Watch eye movements up and say to yourself, “Pictures.” Watch eye movements down right and say to yourself, “Feelings.” For all other eye movements say, “Words and Sounds.
Resist Hypnosis and Hypnotic Conversations
Resist Hypnosis and Hypnotic Conversations... You probably already resist hypnotic conversation, if you recognize what is going on.  Well, that’s the catch.  If someone is really good at this, you may not recognize the technique. You may find yourself owning something you really did not want.  Or even, in bed with someone you are not attracted to.  I just saw this goal advertised on a web site for “Hypnotic Conversation”. While there is something intrinsically...
NEW CONTEST:  “My Best Date Ever”
NEW CONTEST: “My Best Date Ever”... $50.00 cash plus $1400 tuition to “Influencing Your Partner with Integrity” If your account of your “Best Date Ever” is judged by our panel to be the most entertaining of those received in a  three month period, you will receive both the cash and the tuition.   “Influencing Your Partner with Integrity” includes a Coaching Certificate for relationship consulting. GIVE IT A TRY.  JUST RECALLING THE DATE...
Instant Charisma by Using Your Right Brain
Instant Charisma by Using Your Right Brain... (Book Excerpt) Introduction The mysteries of Charisma have fascinated people for centuries.   What is it?  How can you get some? Now, many of these mysteries have been solved recently by a neuro-anatomist who suffered a brain stroke in her Left Brain. She stayed conscious for four hours before asking for outside help, processing her experience mostly with her Right Brain, and remembered the four hours from the inside...
Twelve Stages of Love: New Options at Each Stage
Twelve Stages of Love: New Options at Each Stage... 1.  Starry eyes, heart connection, shivers. 2.  Both people are aware of the same response. 3.  Checking out compatibility. 4.  This may be it: Who goes first with declaration? 5.  Commitment? 6.  Yes to long-term commitment and coasting. 7.   First serious problems. 8.  Lots of serious problems. 9.  Boredom: Flat relationships . 10.  Splitting up. 11.  Getting over it. 12.   Regrets. We invite you to send...
Your Pleasure is My Pleasure
Your Pleasure is My Pleasure... Pleasure has a bad rep.  It connotes hedonism, selfish behavior, narcissism, and abandonment of higher principles.  No gold stars for pleasure.  No pain, no gain is part of our national consciousness.  And if eating butter gives you pleasure, and you give in, you are probably obese as well as weak willed. Here and now, let’s begin to clean up pleasure’s linguistic back eye. What if I claim that acts of...
Unblocking an Impass Between Your Partner and You
Unblocking an Impass Between Your Partner and You... So you want to go to the mountains on your vacation and the other wants to go to the ocean with beaches and fishing and lots of sunshine.  You hate sunshine.  You blister. So s/he wants Chinese food on your night out and you want fried chicken. So s/he wants the thermostat at 75 and you want it as 68. These things turn up in most relationships sooner or later.  You can fill in your own content.  There are strategies...
Spellbinding: Genie Z. Laborde talks about her new book
Spellbinding: Genie Z. Laborde talks about her new... (The following is a part taken from a new book by Genie Z. Laborde in which she applies Influencing with Integrity principles to the arena of personal relationships.) Try something new When I began this book, it was going to be a ‘How-To’ book on improving relationships. At that time, I was counseling couples, including a psychiatrist, a CEO, a Ph.D., an R.N. and many other professionals. They were all experts...
How to Find your Favorite Sense
How to Find your Favorite Sense... Here’s a way to find out your favorite sense. (Visual, Auditory, Kinesthetic) Which of the following responses would you be the most likely to use? 1. In response to the question, “How was your day?” a. Today was a good day. b. Our project  looked  more complicated today. c. The sound of people disagreeing kept interrupting me. d. I think I’m in the wrong job 2. What was the most important event...
Love is Energy
Love is Energy... This love energy is what creates, holds and nourishes your relationship. To keep your relationship energy at its peak, communication is essential. Communication is often blocked by two people who have different PERCEPTUAL PREFERENCES—who use different senses to make sense of their world and to create their individual reality. Each person’s favorite sense-see, hear or feel-dictates what s/he notices in the...

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