NLP Magic... We Hope You Can Join Us for NLP Magic Tales of Extraordinary Life Experiences With Guest Panel: Tom Hoobyar, Founder – NLP Cafe Sheila Dubrow Marsha Carlson FREE Video-Cast with Genie Z. Laborde, Ph.D. DATE:  Wednesday June 16, 2010 TIME:  11am Pacific (12pm Mountain, 1pm Central, 2pm Eastern) Here’s your Link to join the FREE Videocast http://www.conferrooms.com/rooms/GenieLaborde.aspx Just enter a “Screen...

Incorrect Information From An “Expert”... I’ve been collecting tales of experts being wrong for some time, so this is not the first one.  In fact, in each of my seminars I recount a true story about walking down a hotel corridor in Chicago and hearing a voice coming through an open door, “So if someone is looking up to the right, they are lying.”  This was a seminar leader teaching a class with incorrect information.  I thought of sticking...

Fix Any Glitch in Your Behavior... Care to Fix any Glitch in Your Behavior? SNAP! CRACKLE! POP! That sound could be your dendrites as they make new habits of thinking, erasing old behaviors that are no longer useful to you.  Behaviors like anxiety and procrastination.  At the same time, these  old connections are being replaced with peace  and even, joy.  It is all in knowing how. Simple shifts in the chemicals you are manufacturing for  your thinking...

Quick Skills For Relationships – Skill Three... Key Principle Three Rapport is essential for agreements and ongoing relationships. New Behavior Three Awareness of Rapport and non-rapport signals and strategies to change non-rapport will improve your relationship.

Quick Skills For Relationships – Skill Two... Key Principle Two Only you know the true meaning to you of the words you use. New Behavior Two Select words of the other and repeat them for increased clarity in communication.

Quick Skills For Relationships – Skill One... Key Principle One Our eye movements reflect our thinking processes.  Knowing someone’s thinking processes helps you in understanding them. New Behavior One: The Most Important First Step to Understanding Another. Watch eye movements up and say to yourself, “Pictures.” Watch eye movements down right and say to yourself, “Feelings.” For all other eye movements say, “Words and Sounds.

Depression? Not Now? Earlier?... Five percent of Americans are depressed at any moment in time, and 50 percent are depressed sometimes. Newly discovered information on how your brain processes information offers an exit strategy for these depressed people. No, I don’t mean suicide, though some of those afflicted do this; I mean using the natural processing abilities of the Right Brain. Most of us already know that our brains have two parts and are...

You Can Help Them Change (Step One)... You can’t change anyone else, but you can help them change if they want to. How? By using certain strategies from Gestalt Psychology, Linguistics, and System’s Theory. What strategies?  There are four major steps to this sort of opinion change.  The first step will be explained here.  The other three will follow.  The steps are easy, once you know them.  Most people do not. EXAMPLE: NOT WANTING CHILDREN This...

Resist Hypnosis and Hypnotic Conversations... You probably already resist hypnotic conversation, if you recognize what is going on.  Well, that’s the catch.  If someone is really good at this, you may not recognize the technique. You may find yourself owning something you really did not want.  Or even, in bed with someone you are not attracted to.  I just saw this goal advertised on a web site for “Hypnotic Conversation”. While there is something intrinsically...

Eight Pitfalls to Leap Over when Negotiating In a ... 1.        MY WAY OR NO WAY 2.        FUZZY THINKING 3.        NO EARS 4.        TANGLED IN ASSOCIATIONS 5.         FORGETTING TIME HAS POWER 6.        SELF AS RIGHT 7.        CONTACT AND WITHDRAW 8.        NOW OR NEVER 1.    MY WAY OR NO WAY If you suddenly realize in the middle of the negotiation that you are not going to get what you want, you are at A DISADVANTAGE. ...